The Problem With Pole Dancing

"Can you teach me how to pole dance!?" I'm asked for the third time this week by my friends, my boyfriends friends, and even strangers. "Sure!" I say with a smile, secretly scanning the room for a small corner to scream in. This isn't the first time I've been asked by regular people to let … Continue reading The Problem With Pole Dancing

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Dismantling the Patriarchy

A lot of people ask how I got into stripping. How did I decide to give up a life of guaranteed paychecks to living life lapdance to lapdance? How does one make such a life altering decision? Well I'm glad you asked. It all started when I found an ad on southeast Iowa Craigslist seeking … Continue reading Dismantling the Patriarchy

So your boyfriend and his friends walk into the strip club…

Palms are sweaty, knees week, arms are heavy... ok but seriously. No, this isn't the beginning of a bad joke, this was reality. The day I knew would eventually come, had. And it didn't go as expected. I sat in the dressing room, anxious, awaiting their arrival. What do I wear? I have nothing but … Continue reading So your boyfriend and his friends walk into the strip club…